Monday, March 03, 2014

postscript: Crete

Wait, no, a different Crete...

Mandy and I met up in a small town called Crete outside Chicago’s city limits. We got lunch at a local diner followed by coffee at Starbucks, and we met up with her mom for the new movie “Son of God” at AMC, and then the three of us joined her brother and his wife for dinner at Texas Roadhouse. Saturday night culminated with meeting some more of her friends at a local bar. Sunday we went to Faith Church and enjoyed a sermon on ministering to individuals with developmental disabilities (right up my alley! and in more than one way…), and she showed me around her hometown and we went to the closing ceremonies of “Snowball,” a sort of team-building outreach program of which Mandy used to be a part. Lunch was at a breakfast joint called the Big Apple (and, dare I say it, it’s far better than The Anchor), and after perusing the bookstore for a bit, we went on a wild romp through Thorn Creek Nature Preserve. We warmed up at the nature center—a renovated 19th century church—and explored glaciations, fossils, and birds of prey. We had dinner at one of her favorite Mexican restaurants with one of her favorite people (other than me, of course), and I like the fact that I’ve met almost all of her closest, dearest friends. Back at the place we were staying, we watched the Oscars before bed. This morning we said our sad goodbyes, and already I’m counting down the days (18!) until I get to see her again. Here are a few of my favorite pictures from the weekend:


If I may be honest (and it’s my blog, so I have that right), my girlfriend’s beauty intensifies with each passing day as she lovingly mocks my pattern of unobservance, my 80s lingo (though she blushes when she catches herself using it), and my “many crudeness”: You haven’t washed your jeans for a month?! But it’s what they do on the frontier! When I hold her, I’m blown away by the depths of care, affection, and love that one human being can have for another. The most amazing thing, though, is this: as incredible as my love for her may be, it’s corrupted by my selfishness and sin, and it’s a mere shadow—one could even go as far as to call it a parody—of God’s brilliant, piercing love for me. How can I not be overwhelmed with gratitude? How can I not experience this joy in the marrow of my bones? Our love is to be a signpost to Christ’s love for his church, and meditating on that, I’m filled with wonder, awe, and praise. 

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